tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5549007504972079490.post4543467348271801860..comments2013-02-07T14:20:13.511-08:00Comments on Sweet Miss Sheri Ann's: Alone in my principals...Sherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13315124714866024650noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5549007504972079490.post-30216920138413485432009-09-23T21:09:04.775-07:002009-09-23T21:09:04.775-07:00Amen sister!Amen sister!One Girl Revolutionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15531593302363992425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5549007504972079490.post-53596589843769805622009-09-24T05:42:28.330-07:002009-09-24T05:42:28.330-07:00Aaah, I hope I'm not speaking out of turn... b...Aaah, I hope I'm not speaking out of turn... but from my experience as well as just about all of my married friends... the whole "seeing if you have sexual chemistry" is such a load of crap. I don't think anyone's first time with someone (unless you happen to have had a LOT of sex and just know what, in general, works... and even then I doubt it) is gonna blow their mind. It takes work, a lot of work, on both sides to figure that whole equation out. And if you're just gonna "see" if you have sexual chemistry then you're probably going to be disappointed and not be willing to work on it after the wedding. At least, I'm guessing that's what would have happened with me.<br><br>Also, sex before marriage would have been about me and what made me feel good while sex in marriage (inexplicably) is more about my husband and what's going on with him.<br><br>Hope I didn't gross you out, Sheri! I don't want this to sound like I am unhappy or anything in that area... just acknowledging the process that takes much more effort than I ever realized.kjlangfordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09290875375500002589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5549007504972079490.post-64452086878595955752009-11-03T08:25:45.583-08:002009-11-03T08:25:45.583-08:00OK.. I know this blog post is older but I tried to...OK.. I know this blog post is older but I tried to comment on it a few times back in September.. It's funny how the sex arguments haven't changed that much in the last 20 years!! I think, now having been married for 12 years and presently raising a daughter (and also walking my own path all those years ago), I think the focus needs to be on both physical purity and purity of the heart. I wish someone would have talked to me about giving away pieces of my heart even making out with a guy. I'm not one to say "no kissing until the wedding" by any means, I just think purity is so much bigger than just not having intercourse (which is sort of how we judged things in my Christian circle). Just my two cents (which is worth less and less as the days march on).AprilJhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04900966208908769281noreply@blogger.com